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Grateful for my sense of humor....
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My sponsor called me yesterday. We were supposed to meet at 1:00 for our meeting. She said it turned out to be such a nice day (it has been raining a lot here lately) that she wanted to take her dogs for a walk and she had a commitment at 4:00 so she wasn't going to have enough time to do those things and meet wit...
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George A Little 1948 Article -- The Non-Alcoholic Who Started AA in Canada
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Very interesting..... http://www.barefootsworld.net/aagodconcept.html
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Today's Gift 1/10 ... Good One!
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Love is a positive feeling and if one cultivates this feeling in their life, they will surely free themselves from any unbalanced condition that surrounds them. --Syd BanksAnger, whether unfocused or triggered by a troubling experience or a hostile person, discolors our perspective through an a...
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A Good One for this Board as Well As Everywhere....
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"I have the right to have a different opinion from someone else and to feel at ease with this." This is from the Al-Anon Bill of Rights, which I stumbled upon. I am going to be working on this one because I have had problems with it. Think I already shared about me feeling like I had to agree, say...
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Today's Gift 1/9
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Today I will review the goals I've set for myself.Have I met some of them? Do some of them seem out of reach? If so, I will consider how I can simplify them by breaking them down into smaller goals.If one of my goals is to live in a nicer house, I'll look at ways I can begin to work toward that goal. Do I already k...
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The Latest
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I am at a loss.....my sponsor told me from the beginning that everything I shared with her was completely confidential. Then last night I get an email message from her informing me that she shared something of a sensitive nature with her best friend and someone she "uses as a co-sponsor" so...
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Today's Gift 1/8
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Suffering is a journey which has an end. --Matthew FoxPain is part of life. To live a spiritual life, we need a way to understand the suffering we sometimes endure. Looking back at other difficult times can give us a better perspective of the pain we feel today. All of us can recall a loss or a sudden diffi...
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Found Some Advice for a Friend
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Sunrise Quote 1/7
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To be one's self, and unafraid whether right or wrong, is more admirable than the easy cowardice of surrender to conformity. ~Irving Wallace
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Today's Gift 1/7
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We don't want to live in the past, but we do need to learn to live comfortably with it."We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it." This is a promise of the Twelve Step program.One of the most useful tools we have for learning to live with our past is the Fourth Step inventory. Onc...
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Quotes Worth Remembering
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I need to print out these and super glue them to my nose for my eyes to see and my brain to remember. Most of my "issues" have had to do with not being able to accept the things I cannot change and not working hard enough to change me instead of hoping/trying others will change. So I have a huge ego-...
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The "Right" Way to Say That is....
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When I was a kid I had a problem. I was teased unmercifully for it by other kids because I could not say words correctly. Some kids and adults tried to "teach" me how to say the words correctly. This made me feel embarrassment and shame. It wasn't until I was in fifth grade that a speech therapis...
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Sunrise Quote
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Today see if you can stretch your Heart and expand your love so that it touches not only those to whom you can give it easily, but also those who need it so much. ~Daphne Rose Kingma
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Today's Gift 1/6
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Oh, what a tangled web we weave When first we practice to deceive. --Sir Walter ScottTo deceive means to fool people into believing things that are not true. As addicts, we did this in many ways. We lied. We hid facts. We were sneaky. While we were trying to fool other people, we also fooled ourselves. Ev...
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This is a Test...
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Just passing through -- Edited by MarcLacroix on Wednesday 6th of January 2016 01:01:31 AM
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Trust
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I have been in recovery for a short while 39th day. My dilemma is regaining trust which has been damaged by my alcoholism. I currently rent a house with my partner my name is not on the rent book and I would like to have a legal stand on tenancy. We also have a joint account which my salary goes in to but hers go...
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Today's Gift 1/5
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How beautiful it is to do nothing, and then rest afterward. --Spanish proverbThe beauty of the Third Step is that there's no real work for us to do. Making a decision to turn our will and our life over to the care of God requires no energy, no movement. We don't have to grit our teeth. It's only a decision an...
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All This God Stuff
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A woman I know was always bringing up that she didn't believe in God, nor did she have a Higher Power. Although I made it clear to her in the beginning of our "newly blossoming" friendship that I am a Christian therefore I do believe in God, it did not stop her from bringing up the subject during...
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What Other People Think of Me is None of My Business
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When I relapsed not long ago, I had decided I was not going back to AA the day I picked up again. I had "had enough" of sobriety. I allowed my depression and all over the place emotions get the better of me and I lost sight of what should have been my number one priority and that is to stay sober. Wit...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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January 4, 2016Quote of the Week"God can't give you anything new until you let go of the old." Oh how I love to hang on to what I think I know. I came into the program filled with opinions, ideas, resentments, attitudes, beliefs, etc., and even though many of them were literally killing me...
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Today's Gift 1/4
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Is there room in your day for the unexpected?Recovery works best for me when I'm open to what comes along each day. I used to set rigid schedules for myself, write long lists of things to do, and proceed through the day wearing the blinders of my preconceived scenario. Binges were my way of rebelling aga...
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Sobriety as A New Year's Resolution
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I like this article...so many good tips/points. I noticed that attendance for our New Year's Eve AA meeting went up quite a bit than it had been in months--we had a full house (and we have a fairly large meeting room). The number of people picking up chips was not very many, however at tonight's meeting,...
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Today's Gift 1/3
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Moral InventoryIt is fortunate that we can think in secret, because our thoughts would quickly get us in trouble if others could read them. In our thoughts, we can choose what we wish to reveal to others before we speak or act. In the long run, however, we do not really conceal our true thoughts and feeli...
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Sunrise Quote
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At the hour of death, when we come face to face with God, we are going to be judged on love-not how much we have done, but how much love we put into our actions. ~Mother Teresa
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My Three GirlFriends
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Hiya; Hope all is well with you all... Here is some food for thought for those of you contemplating a Step Four Sex Inventory. :) Adultery/Infidelity are not recognized as criminal activity in most states but when I examine my past behaviors I see that I had Three GirlFiends while I was married. I loved...
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Today's Gift 1/1
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Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves. --Rainer Maria RilkeWe carry problems and discrepancies within us, quandaries that are not easily answered - and we have bigger questions about life and the world. Why did I act as I did in my younger years? C...
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Today's Gift 1/2
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Learning new waysOnce we make a connection with our Higher Power, the ongoing problem is to hold on to it. Repeatedly we slip into our old ways of thinking and behaving. If not curtailed, eventually these will lead us back to that first fix, pill, or drink. We need only a word, thought, or familiar situa...
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Got any funny recovery sms text lately?
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Last week I was a bit concerned about a newcomer who had an over preoccupation with female newcomers. I sent him a text saying "under every skirt is a slip". His response was "Yes I know. Marriage is like a deck of cards. In the beginning all you need is two hearts and a diamond. By the end,...
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Sad to notice the doorway getting narrower.
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More and more people are becoming aware of AA. What comes with that is a growing number of people who have become anti-AA. However, I have also noticed that most of them do not explain an alternative recovery program. Where I come from (Northern NSW, Australia) topic meetings are replacing identific...
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First time to reach out for help... wits end
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Hello,I'm reaching out tonight in hopes of any words of encouragement. I had my first drink at 13 and it was great - made me feel normal! I'm 45 now and have had a serious problem with alcohol for the past 8 years (although plenty of alcohol related drama many times before that), but the past two years ha...
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To ALL at MIP
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MY Wish for YOU This Year.
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i'm Partying this New Years!!
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I'm going to Party like crazy tonight... I just put a whole darn bag of popcorn in the microwave, made a ice cold Pepsi, and going to spend time with my sweet baby NF. (Netflix) until "the ball" drops. Bet I don't end up drunk doing stupid, or in jail having to ask someone if I can use the phone, or.... tomorr...
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Bat S@#t crazy and spiritually sick.
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If I make it to bed tonight without a drink, I'll have 7 months sobriety in the morning. I'm really not considering a drink, but I'm having a bad day and don't really want to talk about it at my home group tonight or to my sponsor, because I know I'm just being a weak snivelin' puss full of selfishness, self...
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Miracles In Progress
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As a member here on MIP, I've benefited so very much in make'n new friends and learn'n such a 'much deeper knowledge' of AA and it's principles, 'worldwide' ... I feel deeply indebted to John, MIP's owner, for start'n and maintain'n this web site ... he has done so mostly at his own expense ... and arou...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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December 28, 2015Quote of the Week"What other people think of me is none of my business." What a revolutionary concept this was the first time I heard it. So revolutionary, in fact, that I had a hard time believing it might be true. So much of my identity, how I felt about myself, my moods, a...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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December 21, 2015Quote of the Week"Don't forget that the world record is 24 hours." I remember when I was new watching people take cakes for 5 years, 7 years and more, and thinking that they had something I didn't - the ability to stay sober. When I shared about this, I was told that we all hav...
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Today's Gift 12/31
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May you live all the days of your life. --Jonathan Swift Tonight, at midnight, a new year will begin. None of us know what the new year will hold. But we can trust ourselves to hold on to the spirit of recovery as we go through the year. As a new year is about to begin, we can rejoice in our new way of life. We c...
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Sunrise Quote 12/31
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Success isn't how far you got, but the distance you traveled from where you started. ~Unknown
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Today's Gift 12/29
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You have to sniff out joy, keep your nose to the joy-trail. --Buffy Sainte-MarieNewcomer I heard an old-timer say, "You can be right, or you can be happy." What does that mean? When something is wrong, am I supposed to deny what I can see with my own eyes? SponsorThis program saying is not mea...
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Today's Gift 12/30
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I've shut the door on yesterday, And thrown the key away. Tomorrow holds no fears for me, Since I have found today. -- Vivian Yeiser LaramoreFeeling guilty or ashamed about the past - about what we did or did not do, about what happened to us, about who we were - can be our undoing. We must work long and har...
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Sunrise Quote 12/30
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The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention. ~Oscar Wilde
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Going back to school in my early 30s
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My last semester of college is something I'm less than proud of. I wasn't sober yet. I wish I had discovered the program in college, instead of right after college. I already have a great career, but I need to actually be a licensed with a masters to advance my career. I'm going to make that happen if that'...
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Today's Gift 12/28
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Taking the first step helps bridge the gulf between our dreams and our accomplishments.Whether the project is cleaning the garage, building a cathedral, or recovering from an addiction, plans must be translated into action. In order to arrive at our destination, we must begin the trip. We can read...
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Sunrise Quote 12/27
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And the joy of it all; when we count it all up; is found in the making of friends. ~Unknown, Source on Friends and Friendship
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Today's Gift 12/27
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You saved me once, and what is given is always returned. We are in this life to help one another. --Carlo Collodi, The Adventures of PinocchioAs the end of this year approaches, we think about endings and beginnings. This past year brought us both difficulties and happiness, both pain and healing. I...
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FIRST CHRISTMAS
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Good evening all, Looking for some tips for a sober christmas. I have been in recovery for 40 days today and I have just broke up for christmas until boxing day. Feeling out of sorts as all my collegues have gone on a night out this evening just felt it was to soon to put myself in that enviroment so opted ou...
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Donation Light is lite again, please contribute.
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Hi Everyone, I literally hate having to post this stuff but each year our bills come due again for the MIP site. The domain name registration, the web hosting, message boards, etc, cost money. If you can make a donation that will help offset some of the expense it would be gratefully appreciated. T...
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Do's and Don'ts of Choosing a 12-Step Sponsor
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http://www.promises.com/articles/relapse-prevention/choosing-a-sponsor/
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Been awhile
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I haven't posted anything for sometime, lately for some reason I been finding myself in here doing more reading, For me I am well and sober, life is good. Winter will soon be behind us again. I seen a robin the other day and it made me smile. It the little things that have change the most for me and that make m...
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