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FIRST STEP:
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The first step is making the first contact - - and admitting we are powerless - - we are out of control and slowing committing suicide. Hard words, yes, but words that are true. We get to the point where we cannot function, where we are out of control. We are destroying ourselves and everything in our path...
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F.E.A.R.
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F.E.A.R. = Frustration, Ego, Anxiety and Resentment. -- Anonymous
We don't want to return to the life we led before recovery, but fear should never be the reason why we don't. Fear keeps us from being open to the Program. If we're only in the Program because we're afraid of the old way of life, we'll...
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Frustration
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don't know what happened, but couldn't get back in, but I'm here. Had to walk away for a few. Some things can be so damn frastrating that I've learn to walk away and evenually things have a way of working out.
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As Bill Sees It
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Getting off a "Dry Bender"
"Sometimes, we become depressed. I ought to know; I have been a champion dry-bender case myself. While the surface causes were a part of the picture- trigger-events that precipitated depression- the underlaying causes, I am satisfied, ran much deeper.
Intelle...
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The Gift of Forgiveness
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This anger management Practice draws on the dual wisdom of Aikido and scientific research, "The gift of forgiveness" will help you explore how to change long term anger into a wider range of life affirming emotions. It is a simple yet profound Practice following the Seishindo principles of Absorpt...
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As Bill Sees It
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For Those That Are Going Through Some Tough Days?
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Thought for Sunday
"Just cut your head off...and do "THE DO THINGS"
Have a good one...
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Thought for the day
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THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Another part of the answer to how people can live without turmoil and be happy lies in being bound to other members of the group with new ties. They will escape disaster together. New group feeling helps provide them all with a way to identify with each other's common affliction...
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Out Of The 12 and 12
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"Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others."
Good judgment, a careful sense of timing, courage, and prudence--these are the qualities we shall need when we take Step Nine. After we have made the list of people we have harmed, have reflecte...
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Why I can't drink.
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An earlier post from Quetzal about seeing people actually crying about having to give up drinking reminded me of something that crossed my mind a couple nights back.
I was musing about my drinking days...kinda reflecting on how or why I got to where I ended up no longer daring to have that first drink...
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We dare not look....
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"Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves." Creation gave us instincts for a purpose. Without them we wouldn't be complete human beings. If men and women didn't exert themselves to be secure in their persons, made no effort to harvest food or construct shelter, there would be no su...
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???? Board format
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Is it my imagination, or has the format of the board changed AGAIN? LOL, last time it did this I had to relearn how to read posts. I've no idea how to fix this, nor how it happens in the first place. Phil? Any ideas????
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As Bill Sees It
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Troublemakers Can Be Teachers
Few of us are any longer afraid of what any newcomer can do to our A.A. reputation or effectiveness. Those who slip, those who panhandle, those who scandalize, those with mental twists, those who rebel at the program, those who trade on the A.A. reputation- all such...
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Keep balance
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Sometimes the best way to get something done is to stop working on it for a while. Focused effort is essential to success, and balance is just as important. If all your time, energy, thoughts, efforts and actions are focused in just one direction, you can soon become utterly burned out. You wi...
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Ours is an illness of more
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There is enough in the world for everyone's need, but not enough for everyone's good. -- Frank Buchman
Ours is an illness of more. More! More! More! The greed of addiction decays the soul and leaves us to desperately try to fill the hole that is left behind, but there is never enough. The greed of add...
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No Judgement
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No judgment
Everything in life holds both a blessing and a curse. We deny this when we label the events of our lives as either good or bad. The following old Zen story illustrates this lesson most effectively.
A farmer had a horse but one day, the horse ran away and so the farmer and his son had to plow t...
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Thanks
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Thanks to those who have welcomed to the board, greatly appreciate it. Wanted to appologized if any inconvenienceusing my last name, hope nothing was taken personal. Was introduced to this by someone whom I look upto and respect. Anyways thanks again.
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Relationship addicts...
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"When relationship addicts see porcupine persons,
they believe turning themselves into pincushions is the way to intimacy." From Laugh! I thought I'd die (if I didn't) June 9
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Correct "telephone" AA contacts
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Just a reminder, but at an Alanon meeting last night, our AA contact numbers were obsolete! The numbers left on flyers were wrong. The number left at recovery centers were outdated. So....it is pretty important to have these numbers double checked once or twice a year.&n...
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cravings
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when i was new i did cry and grieve the loss of the booze cause it was my whole freakin identity, i mean who the hell was i without it? i did not know a single person who wasnt addicted to something. booze was the only thing i could rely on and the idea of life without it was terrifiying. the cravings were sever...
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The History of AA in UK
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Hi everyone,
I came across this earlier today and just thought I'd like to share it with you. I love reading about how AA started around the world and here's how it started here in UK.
Take care,
Carol
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The venue for AA's first meet...
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AA Telephone Support
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Hi everyone,
I was at an AA meeting last night and afterwards my sponsor asked me if I would be interested in doing telephone service for AA and twelve-stepping people who 'phone. She seems to think that I would be good at it and I would love to do it. I feel privileged and humbled to have been asked.
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New on the Board
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Just wanted to introduce myself.
My name Is tina
I'm a single of 2 children 17 and 14 My aniversary date is July 14 2003. Still going sober, and enjoy each experience with the streght and hope of each new day and challenges as they come. Hope that I can help others as they...
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The Time Has Come
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Yep the time has come. I've been putting this off ever since I entered the program. AMENDS!!!
Damn, that's a scary word right now!
Wednesday night, my sponsor and I went over step nine in the 12&12. One sentence really stuck out to me. It said something along the lines of......If we are reasona...
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As Bill Sees It
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Daily Reflections Nov 10
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A SENSE OF BELONGING Perhaps one of the greatest rewards of meditation and prayer is the sense of belonging that comes to us. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 105 That's what it is -- belonging! After a session of meditation I knew that the feeling I was experiencing was a sense of belonging becau...
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What is time for?
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At Oran, as elsewhere, for lack of time and thinking, people have to love one another without knowing much about it. -- Albert Camus
What is time for? How often we say, "I don't have the time for ______" (meaning our marriages, our friends, our children, our hobbies, our parents, ourselves). Just...
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Daily Power Words
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The mind is its own place, and in itself, can make heaven of Hell, and a hell of Heaven. ~John Milton Mind: The mind is a powerful force, behind the creation of all of our experiences. It can be a powerful tool, or a stealth weapon. Our minds are constantly at work, and our subconscious mind is able to be pro...
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Pain
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Each of us struggles with pain and its repercussions; some of us more than others. At times pain seems unending. Sometimes we hang onto the pain in our lives, maybe because we fear even more what's on the other side. The unknown so easily controls us. Right at this moment, each of us can look back on other...
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Hello
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Been a few. Are you people still sober?
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As Bill Sees It
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True Independence of the Spirit
The more we become willing to depend upon a Higher Power, the more independent we actually are.
Therefore, independence as A.A. practices it is really a means of gaining true independence of spirit.
At the level of everyday living, it is startli...
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goodness me I have a brain
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you know when you believe what your head tells you, you know it that your no good, it sticks dont it, I was gob smacked yesterday, as you know im at uni, i got my 1st assignment back yesterday. this is the first acedemic writing I have done on 6 years plus active alcoholism in that time as well, I got a "B" that...
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Daily Reflections Nov 9
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STEPPING INTO THE SUNLIGHT But first of all we shall want sunlight; nothing much can grow in the dark. Meditation is our step out into the sun. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 10 Sometimes I think I don't have time for prayer and meditation, forgetting that I always found the time to drink. It is possible to make time f...
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Take Comfort
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You seek comfort by hiding away, but all you get is loneliness. You seek comfort by judging and criticizing others, but all you get is resentment.
You seek comfort by striving and acquiring, but all you get is the insecurity of knowing that those things you have will not last. You seek comfort by insu...
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Jealousy
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OUSTING THE GREEN DEMON
Victory over Jealousy. We hear of successful people who drop their old friends after moving up the ladder. Maybe, however, it wasn't their choice -- maybe they were driven to do so because their friends' jealousy made the friendship unworkable. We have little...
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Daily Reprieve
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We are not cured of alcoholism. What we really have is a daily reprieve contingent on the maintenance of our spiritual condition.
I remember when I first read this for the 100th time. Haha. I just remember thinking maintenance............???? I don't even know what condit...
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The fine line between supporting and enabling
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Hi all,
I am not really sure how to word this post, I am really feeling happy, joyus and free, so I need to get the "ick" out before it kicks my butt. Let me preface my post by stating that I know I am powerless over alcohol, including someone else's drinking.
Last night my hubby called me from Alaska, an...
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clingy with my sponsor...
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My sponsor told me yesterday morning that I've been getting really clingy to her... I didn't realize it, and I don't realize when I call so much... I used to be this way with my husband when we were dating... I was dx with borderline (the whole "I hate you, don't leave me" thing)... and now apparently I'm b...
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Thought For The Night
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Life is about ass
Your're either covering it
Laughing it off
Kicking it
Kissing it
Busting it
Trying to get a piece of it
Behaving like one
Or you live with one
Thats simple eh???
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Thank you for this board!
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Good morning, all!
My name is Debbie H. and I am a recovering alcoholic/addict/compulsive gambler. A while back, last week sometime, I "stumbled" on this site. I was struggling with myself in the respect that I wanted to go back to AA meetings on a regular basis, yet I felt unwilling to...
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The life we have
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You know that for the first time in my life I can truly say that life is ok.
The reason being that through this program, all of your posts, all of the meetings, the steps we take, the strengthand hope that I get from all this, and the best of all my HP, I finally know who and what I am and I am no longer confused...
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Yesterday is over
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Yesterday is over.
It is a fact of life that what is old dies to make way for what is new. Endings are often painful -- we mourn the death of a relationship, we regret leaving a familiar neighborhood, we don't like to say good-bye.
Endings, though, give us the chance to begin again. A ne...
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Daily Reflections Nov 8
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AN INDIVIDUAL ADVENTURE Meditation is something which can always be further developed. It has no boundaries, either of width or height. Aided by such instruction and example as we can find, it is essentially an individual adventure, something which each one of us works out in his own way. TWELVE STE...
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Happy Birthday To Me
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Hi All,
Today's my 8 year AA birthday.
My husband's been in bed all day and night (now 9.29pm here in Sydney, Australia) coming down off meth (we met in AA 8 and a half years ago). But that's for sharing about at another 12 step progam.
I wanted to go to a meeting tonight but can't go as I have noo...
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hey y'all
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Hey everyone... just a little update on me... 84 days of no drinking... surprisingly I haven't even had a thought of it with what all's going on...
I'm not sleeping well, here it is almost 5am and I've been up since 3 after getting 4 hours of sleep. I'm exhausted by the end of the day and still can't get...
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Truly Listening
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Truly listening to someone is one of the greatest gifts we give to each other. Listening from our hearts- open and waiting for the other to speak what is truly in their heart - is a ministry of hospitality. It is holy work. Speaking from the heart takes courage - to risk and be vulnerable with another. C...
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The act of forgiveness
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It is the act of forgiveness that opens up the only possible way to think creatively about the future at all. -- Father Desmond Wilson
Today is full of endless possibilities and dreams. In many cases, we are limited only by our fear and lack of hope, in others and ourselves. Each new day we are give...
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i need advice in f2f meeting
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To All,
Thank you so much for responding. I am very greatful that I made it back. I am excited and scared at the same time with the commitment I have to make too AA. I have always had a hard time sharing in front of a large crowd. My home group is very big and the...
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Daily Reflections Nov 7
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LET GO AND LET GOD . . . praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 96 When I "Let Go and Let God," I think more clearly and wisely. Without having to think about it, I quickly let go of things that cause me immediate pain and discomfort...
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Higher Awareness 11/05
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“Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude.”
-- Denis Waitley
Peace, joy, health and well-being can only be found inside us. They exist within us now, waiting to be discovered...
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