Alcoholics Anonymous

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ We who have learned to put our drink problem in God's hands can help others to do so. We can be used as a connection between an alcoholic's need and God's supply of strength. We in Alcoholics Anonymous can be uniquely useful, just because we have the misfortune or fortune to be al...

lanchas · lanchas

I am afraid that I may have alcoholic tendencies even though I don't drink. I think of Coca Cola as my alcohol........ * I can't stop drinking it. *I drink can after can or glass after glass. *all the time *especially when I am mad * I killed two bottles of 2-liter bottles in two days. * I use it to...

jeannie · jeannie

When the pencil box disappeared, the little girl saw her chance. Going up to the teacher, she said, "I saw Timmy around the desk. He took the pencil box." The little girl had not liked Tim, and she felt that it would be great fun to get him into trouble. The teacher brought Timmy into the...

jeannie · jeannie

Whose Inventory? We do not relate intimate experiences of another member unless we are sure he would approve. We find it better, when possible, to stick to our own stories. A man may criticize or laugh at himself and it will affect others favorably, but criticism or riducule aimed at someone els...

ally · ally

(((((((((((((GUYS)))))))))))) You will not believe this. I didn't, you all know I opened a f2f group. And tonight I didn't feel like going. I was tired after working all week. And the other woman who goes with me text me to apologise, she couldn't make it...argg. So I said "Ally Girl, YOU made a co...

Phil · Phil

In the life of each AA member, there lurks a tyrant. His name is alcohol. He is cunning, ruthless. And his weapons are misery, insanity, and death. No matter how long we may be sober, he always stands at each man's elbow, ever watchful of an opportunity to resume his destruction. Like an agent of the Gest...

Kimmy · Kimmy

I'm feeling a little better today. I'm the secretary of a sunday big book study so of course I had to be at the meeting yesterday. Thats what I love about group service work, invarably I wont want to go because of my mood or whatever, and the responsibility keeps my connected. I shared at the meeting yeste...

Phil · Phil

And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing, or situation some fact of my life unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at...

Phil · Phil

Withdrawals Can Be Mild, Moderate or SevereAlcohol withdrawal refers to a group of symptoms that may occur from suddenly stopping the use of alcohol after chronic or prolonged ingestion. Not everyone who stops drinking experiences withdrawal symptoms, but most people who have been drinking for...

Phil · Phil

One of the most frustrating factors in dealing with alcoholism, as a relative, friend or professional, is it is almost always accompanied by a phenomenon known as "denial." In the long path the alcoholic takes toward mental, physical and moral decline, usually the first thing to go is ho...

Phil · Phil

"I've Been Thinking"

Phil · Phil

Anger is normal; resentment is a killerOften you'll hear 12 Steppers make a statement like 'don't get angry, you'll slip.' If there's someone around with some time they may point out that resentment, not anger is the real threat to continuous abstaining. The differences between the two are import...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In A.A. we learn that since we are alcoholics we can be uniquely useful people. That is, we can help other alcoholics when perhaps somebody who has not had our experience with drinking could not help them. That makes us uniquely useful. The A.A.s are a unique group of people bec...

LisaF · LisaF

No, no thoughts of drinking... just... this is tough, doing the family thing... it's a heck of a lot easier to live 12 hours away and just talk to them on the phone a couple times a week lol I do love seeing my family, but I can only take so much... even when I lived here I could only take so much, I might h...

Kimmy · Kimmy

Good morning everyone. I'm new to message boards and a recovering alcoholic/addict so an AA board seemed the right place to pop in and say Hi. I'm kind of at a loss as to what to say. I'm currently going through a lot of chaos right now. Relationship stuff. You know what they say at meetings, " relati...

wagon · wagon

Hi everyone, Hope today finds u all well, Its a long weekend here in the states, been busy here, went to c my son yesterday, he just finsihed college for the year and is working a job for the summer, When i first got sober he sent me a big book in the mail, i havent seen to much of him the last couple of years but...

Tina · Tina

Hi folks Just thought I'd check in, things are going ok. Kids are doing well, and getting ready for summer. One thing that is well concerning me is well now I have a bit of an issue. My feet have been acting up lately, got the left check out and as a result got a spur on the bottum of my foot and has progresse...

Quetzal · Quetzal

A married woman who had recently joined Al-Anon called me one afternoon. She worked part-time as a registered nurse, had assumed all the responsibilities for raising her two children, and did all the household chores, including repairs and finances. "I want to separate from my husband,&quo...

Wren · Wren

The great thing in the world is not so much where we stand, as in what direction we are moving. -- Oliver Wendell Holmes We are all on a life-long journey. It is a search for who we are and why we are here. It is a journey that expands our consciousness. There is an urge within each of us to move forward in life...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In twelth-step work, the fifth thing is continuance. Continuance means our staying with prospects after they have started on the new way of living. We must stick with them and not let them down. We must encourage them to go to meetings regularly for fellowship and help. They w...

Quetzal · Quetzal

We have choices, more choices than we let ourselves see. We may feel trapped in our relationships, our jobs, our life. We may feel locked into behaviors such as caretaking or controlling. Feeling trapped is a symptom of codependency. When we hear ourselves say, I have to take care of this person . . . I h...

Wren · Wren

The quality of our life is not dependent on the circumstances we encounter. The quality of our life is dependent on what we learn from the circumstances we encounter. Perhaps the greatest example of this wisdom is present in the life of Nelson Mandela. He is a man that suffered great pain and hardship...

Phil · Phil

A Canadian is walking down the street with a case of beer under his arm. His friend Doug stops him and asks, "Hey Bob! Whacha get the case of beer for?" "I got it for my wife, eh." answers Bob. "Oh!" exclaims Doug, "Good trade."

Phil · Phil

"Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it." As we work the first nine Steps, we prepare ourselves for the adventure of a new life. But when we approach Step Ten we commence to put our A.A. way of living to practical use, day by day, in fair weather or fou...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Intimacy is that warm gift of feeling connected to others and enjoying our connection to them. As we grow in recovery, we find that gift in many, sometimes surprising, places. We may discover we've developed intimate relationships with people at work, with friends, with people in our support group...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In twelth-step work, the third thing is conviction. Prospects must be convinced that they honestly want to stop drinking. They must see and admit that their life is unmanageable. They must face the fact that they must do something about their drinking. They must be absolute...

ally · ally

(((((((((((((((((ss)))))))))))))) ..no, It was nothing you said or done..... I can't even find the reply your talking about..lol. You have ALL been wonderful, and understanding...And I love how I can so idenify with you all....lol will keep reading all your posts..and gaining valuable insight...

Bryan39 · Bryan39

American idol had started and I had decided to stay home and be a couch potato when a little after seven I had the sudden urge to go to a meeting unbeknownst to me the same thing happened in a couple other homes elsewhere in town. Meanwhile across town at the local camel club (where most of our meeting here...

ally · ally

(((((((((ROOMIES))))))))))))) Nothing lasts for ever...I have enjoyed my time at mip, meeting lovely people, sharing my experience with you all...I also have received wisdom on numerous occasions...... In growing within Al-Anon, we become whole again, we start to believe we ARE worth somet...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Inspiration starts in the home. -- Alpha English What does being inspired really mean? Alpha would say it means having the faith to tackle difficult tasks. She surely had it. In a time when few women went to college, she did and with honors. Then after a lifetime of teaching in a small Arkansas town, s...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In twelth-step work, the second thing is confession. By frankly sharing with prospects, we get them talking about their own experiences. They will open up and confess things to us that they haven't been able to tell other people. And they feel better when this confession has...

Wren · Wren

I was talking on the phone to a woman about a business matter. I didnt know her but I was impressed by her work. When the conversation ended, I reflected on how many times I had been apologetic about who I was and what I was doing. There was no need for that! Marianne Williamsons words came to mind: Your play...

Wren · Wren

The Good In All Sometimes we find it difficult to see the good in people, places, or situations that arent to our liking. We focus on the things we dont like in our lives as a way of fueling our efforts to create change. There is nothing inherently wrong with this, and it is one way we make progress. Ho...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Worry is a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. If encouraged, it cuts a channel into which all other thoughts are drained. -- Arthur Somers Roche A trickle of water that drains down the side of a hill poses no problem to the hill, its vegetation, or the people living in the valley. But if that t...

LisaF · LisaF

I'm down in Mississippi (basically in Memphis TN)... got here last night around 7:30 or so, spent last night at my dad's and am at my mom's now... Went to a meeting at my homegroup down here, it was a pretty small meeting compared to what it usually is, lots of new people I didn't know, but some old faces I w...

nursedebbiepink · nursedebbiepink

hi all, i have been on this board before. and i am active in alanon (although i don't go as often as i should.) i take care of myself the best i know how the my A's active drinking...go browsing at barnes and noble, go to the lake, do things with the adult children, read, go online and such. i very r...

Moon · Moon

Hi guys, ok so we all have something in common...we're alcoholics, yes it's true. Anyway I'd like to know what you all do besides having this disease. What are you're hobbies, interest's, ect... So because this is my idea I'll go first. I really like to draw, create, decorate, write, all that...

HangingInThere · HangingInThere

I am on a quest for answers, though deep down I know I am probably on an endless journey. Your insight, however, could possibly help. I am a member of Al-anon and my AH has been sober from alcohol/drugs for almost 4 mos. We recently seperated, for another of his addictions was an A girlfriend and the tem...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The Twelth Step of A.A., working with others, can be subdivided into five parts, five words beginning with the letter C- confidence, confession, conviction, conversion, and continuance. The first thing in trying to help other alcoholics is to get their confidence. We do t...

Phil · Phil

Alcoholism is a disease of the body, thinking, emotions and spirit. Progressive damage to these four aspects interact in various ways such that a person is increasingly compelled to drink. Also, once drinking starts they cannot ?always? guarantee when they will stop or how much they will drink. Th...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Life is not to be endured; life is to be enjoyed and embraced. The belief that we must square our shoulders and get through a meager, deprived existence for far off rewards in Heaven is a codependent belief. Yes, most of us still have times when life will be stressful and challenge our endurance skills....

barisax · barisax

Much has been written about "The Inner Child" especially in the roaring 90s. I'm very much in touch with my inner child. My inner child is a selfish, indulgent, irresponsible, lazy, rip-roaring brat who is only sober by the grace of God. I'm still looking for my Inner Adult. I'll keep you...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ What impresses us most at an A.A. meeting is the willingness to share, without holding anything back. And pretty soon we find ourselves sharing also. We start telling our own experiences and by so doing we help the other person. And when we've got these things off our chest, we...

Quetzal · Quetzal

I want to change careers . . . I need a friend . . .I'm ready to be in a relationship . . . Regularly, we become aware of new needs. We may need to change our behavior with our children. We may need a new couch, love and nurturing, a dollar, or help. Do not be afraid to recognize a want or need. The birth of a want or...

Phil · Phil

With the physical and emotional closeness of a partnership, it is inevitable that there is sometimes conflict. It is often a sign that something is wrong or that someone is unhappy. Avoiding conflict or ignoring the problems could mean that you are choosing to avoid talking through important issue...

Wren · Wren

Anything Can Be Overcome The journey that each human being makes through earthly existence can have hardship as often as it is touched by joy. When we encounter adversity, the stress we feel can erode our optimism, eventually convincing us that the issues we face cannot be overcome. In truth, there i...

Doll · Doll

STEP ONE WE . . . (The first word of the First Step) TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 21 When I was drinking all I could ever think about was "I, I, I," or "Me, Me, Me." Such painful obsessions of self, such soul sickness, such spiritual selfishness bound me to the bottle for mo...

Quetzal · Quetzal

.... open up to hope and new possibilities... Some mornings we may awaken filled with thoughts of what is wrong in our lives. Perhaps we obsess about our failures or the limits of our relationships. If we let ourselves sink into self-loathing, we build a wall that separates us from those things that nu...

LisaF · LisaF

The doctor finally called me back over a week after having my MRI... I'm so sick of dealing with that dr's office... Anyway, they said the dr looked at my results, and I have a disc that is protruding but it's not herniated and said to stay on the meds they prescribed (muscle relaxers... that's going to he...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Trust yourself. You know what you want and need. Put yourself first. You can't be anything for anybody else unless you take care of yourself. Let your feelings be known. They are important. Express your opinions. It's good to hear yourself talk. Value your thinking. You do it well. If you don't value i...

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	24 Hours a Day ~ 29th May 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ We who have learned to put our drink problem in God's hands can help others to do so. We can be used as a connection between an alcoholic's need and God's supply of strength. We in Alcoholics Anonymous can be uniquely useful, just because we have the misfortune or fortune to be al...	Sobrietyspell	0	320	May 29, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	alcoholic tendencies (Preview) I am afraid that I may have alcoholic tendencies even though I don't drink. I think of Coca Cola as my alcohol........ * I can't stop drinking it. I drink can after can or glass after glass. all the time especially when I am mad I killed two bottles of 2-liter bottles in two days. * I use it to...	lanchas	8	1398	May 29, 2007 by amanda2u2
	Telling the Truth (Preview) When the pencil box disappeared, the little girl saw her chance. Going up to the teacher, she said, "I saw Timmy around the desk. He took the pencil box." The little girl had not liked Tim, and she felt that it would be great fun to get him into trouble. The teacher brought Timmy into the...	jeannie	0	300	May 29, 2007 by jeannie
	As Bill Sees It (Preview) *Whose Inventory?* We do not relate intimate experiences of another member unless we are sure he would approve. We find it better, when possible, to stick to our own stories. A man may criticize or laugh at himself and it will affect others favorably, but criticism or riducule aimed at someone els...	jeannie	0	290	May 29, 2007 by jeannie
	WOW..GUESS WHO CAME TO A MEETING (Preview) (((((((((((((GUYS)))))))))))) You will not believe this. I didn't, you all know I opened a f2f group. And tonight I didn't feel like going. I was tired after working all week. And the other woman who goes with me text me to apologise, she couldn't make it...argg. So I said "Ally Girl, YOU made a co...	ally	6	521	May 29, 2007 by alligot
	The Tyrant (Preview) In the life of each AA member, there lurks a tyrant. His name is alcohol. He is cunning, ruthless. And his weapons are misery, insanity, and death. No matter how long we may be sober, he always stands at each man's elbow, ever watchful of an opportunity to resume his destruction. Like an agent of the Gest...	Phil	8	470	May 28, 2007 by Sick of being sick
	Today (Preview) I'm feeling a little better today. I'm the secretary of a sunday big book study so of course I had to be at the meeting yesterday. Thats what I love about group service work, invarably I wont want to go because of my mood or whatever, and the responsibility keeps my connected. I shared at the meeting yeste...	Kimmy	5	411	May 28, 2007 by timverton
	Acceptance And Letting Go (Preview) And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing, or situation some fact of my life unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at...	Phil	3	387	May 28, 2007 by lanchas
	Alcohol Withdrawal (Preview) Withdrawals Can Be Mild, Moderate or SevereAlcohol withdrawal refers to a group of symptoms that may occur from suddenly stopping the use of alcohol after chronic or prolonged ingestion. Not everyone who stops drinking experiences withdrawal symptoms, but most people who have been drinking for...	Phil	5	455	May 28, 2007 by lanchas
	Alcoholism And Denial (Preview) One of the most frustrating factors in dealing with alcoholism, as a relative, friend or professional, is it is almost always accompanied by a phenomenon known as "denial." In the long path the alcoholic takes toward mental, physical and moral decline, usually the first thing to go is ho...	Phil	2	394	May 28, 2007 by lanchas
	The Three Most Dangerous Words From An Alcoholic (Preview) "I've Been Thinking"	Phil	7	1526	May 28, 2007 by lanchas
	Anger And Resentment...Whats The Difference? (Preview) Anger is normal; resentment is a killerOften you'll hear 12 Steppers make a statement like 'don't get angry, you'll slip.' If there's someone around with some time they may point out that resentment, not anger is the real threat to continuous abstaining. The differences between the two are import...	Phil	12	6270	May 28, 2007 by lanchas
	24 Hours a Day ~ 28th May 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In A.A. we learn that since we are alcoholics we can be uniquely useful people. That is, we can help other alcoholics when perhaps somebody who has not had our experience with drinking could not help them. That makes us uniquely useful. The A.A.s are a unique group of people bec...	Sobrietyspell	0	333	May 28, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	struggling a little... (Preview) No, no thoughts of drinking... just... this is tough, doing the family thing... it's a heck of a lot easier to live 12 hours away and just talk to them on the phone a couple times a week lol I do love seeing my family, but I can only take so much... even when I lived here I could only take so much, I might h...	LisaF	10	494	May 28, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Hi everyone (Preview) Good morning everyone. I'm new to message boards and a recovering alcoholic/addict so an AA board seemed the right place to pop in and say Hi. I'm kind of at a loss as to what to say. I'm currently going through a lot of chaos right now. Relationship stuff. You know what they say at meetings, " relati...	Kimmy	7	401	May 28, 2007 by Kimmy
	hello all (Preview) Hi everyone, Hope today finds u all well, Its a long weekend here in the states, been busy here, went to c my son yesterday, he just finsihed college for the year and is working a job for the summer, When i first got sober he sent me a big book in the mail, i havent seen to much of him the last couple of years but...	wagon	2	356	May 28, 2007 by cindy
	All is well, buttttttt (Preview) Hi folks Just thought I'd check in, things are going ok. Kids are doing well, and getting ready for summer. One thing that is well concerning me is well now I have a bit of an issue. My feet have been acting up lately, got the left check out and as a result got a spur on the bottum of my foot and has progresse...	Tina	11	454	May 28, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Letting Go of Self Doubt (Preview) A married woman who had recently joined Al-Anon called me one afternoon. She worked part-time as a registered nurse, had assumed all the responsibilities for raising her two children, and did all the household chores, including repairs and finances. "I want to separate from my husband,&quo...	Quetzal	0	318	May 28, 2007 by Quetzal
	Growing Ourselves (Preview) The great thing in the world is not so much where we stand, as in what direction we are moving. -- Oliver Wendell Holmes We are all on a life-long journey. It is a search for who we are and why we are here. It is a journey that expands our consciousness. There is an urge within each of us to move forward in life...	Wren	0	281	May 28, 2007 by Wren
	24 Hours a Day ~ 27th May 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In twelth-step work, the fifth thing is continuance. Continuance means our staying with prospects after they have started on the new way of living. We must stick with them and not let them down. We must encourage them to go to meetings regularly for fellowship and help. They w...	Sobrietyspell	0	588	May 27, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Recognizing Choices (Preview) We have choices, more choices than we let ourselves see. We may feel trapped in our relationships, our jobs, our life. We may feel locked into behaviors such as caretaking or controlling. Feeling trapped is a symptom of codependency. When we hear ourselves say, I have to take care of this person . . . I h...	Quetzal	0	321	May 27, 2007 by Quetzal
	Learning from Life (Preview) The quality of our life is not dependent on the circumstances we encounter. The quality of our life is dependent on what we learn from the circumstances we encounter. Perhaps the greatest example of this wisdom is present in the life of Nelson Mandela. He is a man that suffered great pain and hardship...	Wren	1	347	May 27, 2007 by ally
	Only In Cana Du (Preview) A Canadian is walking down the street with a case of beer under his arm. His friend Doug stops him and asks, "Hey Bob! Whacha get the case of beer for?" "I got it for my wife, eh." answers Bob. "Oh!" exclaims Doug, "Good trade."	Phil	1	418	May 27, 2007 by ally
	Have a nice day..:) (Preview) "Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it." As we work the first nine Steps, we prepare ourselves for the adventure of a new life. But when we approach Step Ten we commence to put our A.A. way of living to practical use, day by day, in fair weather or fou...	Phil	1	343	May 26, 2007 by miller2
	Gossip (Preview) Intimacy is that warm gift of feeling connected to others and enjoying our connection to them. As we grow in recovery, we find that gift in many, sometimes surprising, places. We may discover we've developed intimate relationships with people at work, with friends, with people in our support group...	Quetzal	1	345	May 26, 2007 by jeannie
	24 Hours a Day ~ 25th May 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In twelth-step work, the third thing is conviction. Prospects must be convinced that they honestly want to stop drinking. They must see and admit that their life is unmanageable. They must face the fact that they must do something about their drinking. They must be absolute...	Sobrietyspell	0	315	May 25, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	FOR SOBRIETYSPELL (Preview) (((((((((((((((((ss)))))))))))))) ..no, It was nothing you said or done..... I can't even find the reply your talking about..lol. You have ALL been wonderful, and understanding...And I love how I can so idenify with you all....lol will keep reading all your posts..and gaining valuable insight...	ally	1	423	May 25, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	i witnessed a miracle tonight (Preview) American idol had started and I had decided to stay home and be a couch potato when a little after seven I had the sudden urge to go to a meeting unbeknownst to me the same thing happened in a couple other homes elsewhere in town. Meanwhile across town at the local camel club (where most of our meeting here...	Bryan39	8	507	May 25, 2007 by Moon
	LEAVING MIP (Preview) (((((((((ROOMIES))))))))))))) Nothing lasts for ever...I have enjoyed my time at mip, meeting lovely people, sharing my experience with you all...I also have received wisdom on numerous occasions...... In growing within Al-Anon, we become whole again, we start to believe we ARE worth somet...	ally	5	401	May 25, 2007 by ally
	Inspiration (Preview) Inspiration starts in the home. -- Alpha English What does being inspired really mean? Alpha would say it means having the faith to tackle difficult tasks. She surely had it. In a time when few women went to college, she did and with honors. Then after a lifetime of teaching in a small Arkansas town, s...	Quetzal	0	324	May 25, 2007 by Quetzal
	24 Hours a Day ~ 24th May 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In twelth-step work, the second thing is confession. By frankly sharing with prospects, we get them talking about their own experiences. They will open up and confess things to us that they haven't been able to tell other people. And they feel better when this confession has...	Sobrietyspell	0	361	May 24, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	No More Playing Small (Preview) I was talking on the phone to a woman about a business matter. I didnt know her but I was impressed by her work. When the conversation ended, I reflected on how many times I had been apologetic about who I was and what I was doing. There was no need for that! Marianne Williamsons words came to mind: Your play...	Wren	1	399	May 24, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Looking Deeply (Preview) The Good In All Sometimes we find it difficult to see the good in people, places, or situations that arent to our liking. We focus on the things we dont like in our lives as a way of fueling our efforts to create change. There is nothing inherently wrong with this, and it is one way we make progress. Ho...	Wren	6	362	May 24, 2007 by Wren
	Worry (Preview) Worry is a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. If encouraged, it cuts a channel into which all other thoughts are drained. -- Arthur Somers Roche A trickle of water that drains down the side of a hill poses no problem to the hill, its vegetation, or the people living in the valley. But if that t...	Quetzal	2	816	May 24, 2007 by Phil
	checkin in... (Preview) I'm down in Mississippi (basically in Memphis TN)... got here last night around 7:30 or so, spent last night at my dad's and am at my mom's now... Went to a meeting at my homegroup down here, it was a pretty small meeting compared to what it usually is, lots of new people I didn't know, but some old faces I w...	LisaF	0	263	May 23, 2007 by LisaF
	should i say anything about his behavior? (Preview) hi all, i have been on this board before. and i am active in alanon (although i don't go as often as i should.) i take care of myself the best i know how the my A's active drinking...go browsing at barnes and noble, go to the lake, do things with the adult children, read, go online and such. i very r...	nursedebbiepink	7	582	May 23, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	creative outlets (Preview) Hi guys, ok so we all have something in common...we're alcoholics, yes it's true. Anyway I'd like to know what you all do besides having this disease. What are you're hobbies, interest's, ect... So because this is my idea I'll go first. I really like to draw, create, decorate, write, all that...	Moon	9	501	May 23, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	What am I waiting for? (Preview) I am on a quest for answers, though deep down I know I am probably on an endless journey. Your insight, however, could possibly help. I am a member of Al-anon and my AH has been sober from alcohol/drugs for almost 4 mos. We recently seperated, for another of his addictions was an A girlfriend and the tem...	HangingInThere	10	1471	May 23, 2007 by TenderheartsKS
	24 Hours a Day ~ 23rd May 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The Twelth Step of A.A., working with others, can be subdivided into five parts, five words beginning with the letter C- confidence, confession, conviction, conversion, and continuance. The first thing in trying to help other alcoholics is to get their confidence. We do t...	Sobrietyspell	0	357	May 23, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Scary...but true... (Preview) Alcoholism is a disease of the body, thinking, emotions and spirit. Progressive damage to these four aspects interact in various ways such that a person is increasingly compelled to drink. Also, once drinking starts they cannot ?always? guarantee when they will stop or how much they will drink. Th...	Phil	0	323	May 23, 2007 by Phil
	Enjoyment (Preview) Life is not to be endured; life is to be enjoyed and embraced. The belief that we must square our shoulders and get through a meager, deprived existence for far off rewards in Heaven is a codependent belief. Yes, most of us still have times when life will be stressful and challenge our endurance skills....	Quetzal	0	364	May 23, 2007 by Quetzal
	The Inner Adult (Preview) Much has been written about "The Inner Child" especially in the roaring 90s. I'm very much in touch with my inner child. My inner child is a selfish, indulgent, irresponsible, lazy, rip-roaring brat who is only sober by the grace of God. I'm still looking for my Inner Adult. I'll keep you...	barisax	3	393	May 22, 2007 by miller2
	24 Hours a Day ~ 22nd May 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ What impresses us most at an A.A. meeting is the willingness to share, without holding anything back. And pretty soon we find ourselves sharing also. We start telling our own experiences and by so doing we help the other person. And when we've got these things off our chest, we...	Sobrietyspell	0	354	May 22, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Getting Needs Met (Preview) I want to change careers . . . I need a friend . . .I'm ready to be in a relationship . . . Regularly, we become aware of new needs. We may need to change our behavior with our children. We may need a new couch, love and nurturing, a dollar, or help. Do not be afraid to recognize a want or need. The birth of a want or...	Quetzal	1	1543	May 22, 2007 by alligot
	Relationships...Dealing With Conflict (Preview) With the physical and emotional closeness of a partnership, it is inevitable that there is sometimes conflict. It is often a sign that something is wrong or that someone is unhappy. Avoiding conflict or ignoring the problems could mean that you are choosing to avoid talking through important issue...	Phil	1	1074	May 22, 2007 by alligot
	Hope in Hardship (Preview) Anything Can Be Overcome The journey that each human being makes through earthly existence can have hardship as often as it is touched by joy. When we encounter adversity, the stress we feel can erode our optimism, eventually convincing us that the issues we face cannot be overcome. In truth, there i...	Wren	3	400	May 22, 2007 by Quetzal
	Daily Reflections May 22 (Preview) STEP ONE WE . . . (The first word of the First Step) TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 21 When I was drinking all I could ever think about was "I, I, I," or "Me, Me, Me." Such painful obsessions of self, such soul sickness, such spiritual selfishness bound me to the bottle for mo...	Doll	0	285	May 22, 2007 by Doll
	The Evolving Relationship (Preview) .... open up to hope and new possibilities... Some mornings we may awaken filled with thoughts of what is wrong in our lives. Perhaps we obsess about our failures or the limits of our relationships. If we let ourselves sink into self-loathing, we build a wall that separates us from those things that nu...	Quetzal	0	353	May 22, 2007 by Quetzal
	found out what's wrong with my back... (Preview) The doctor finally called me back over a week after having my MRI... I'm so sick of dealing with that dr's office... Anyway, they said the dr looked at my results, and I have a disc that is protruding but it's not herniated and said to stay on the meds they prescribed (muscle relaxers... that's going to he...	LisaF	4	340	May 22, 2007 by Quetzal
	Be Good To Yourself Therapy (Preview) Trust yourself. You know what you want and need. Put yourself first. You can't be anything for anybody else unless you take care of yourself. Let your feelings be known. They are important. Express your opinions. It's good to hear yourself talk. Value your thinking. You do it well. If you don't value i...	Quetzal	2	481	May 21, 2007 by learning
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