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Just a simple "Hello" to everyone!
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Hi MIP folks! Nothing big to write about today. Life is getting rather simple and I like it like that. No drama, just me, my dogs, a bit of work, going to meetings, and trying to stay on top of things financially as we head into the winter season, which is always a rough time for me. Pressure Washing home...
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THE STEPS OF A.A. - AN INTERPRETATION
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I really like this guy...One of the original 100 that worked on the book. He was a strong headed alkie...I think he and Bill W. butted heads...Also a strong headed alkie. Some say he should have been one of the Co - Founders of AA...I just like how he kept it simple.He talks about the phases of the steps.....
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Sunrise Quote
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"Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement." - Helen Keller
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Today's Gift
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Children do not know how their parents love them, and they never will till the grave closes over those parents, or till they have children of their own. --Edmund Vance Cooks As adults, we may feel we were cheated out of a "normal" childhood because of our parents' emotional, physical, or sp...
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Welcome 'brigy'
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Welcome to MIP brigy, ... we're glad you'r here and Congrats on 8 months sober ... please share with us ...
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Grapevine
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October 11 "One night, in a moment of desperation, I got down on my knees and remembered a prayer an old sponsor had given me. It said, 'God, help me be of service ... to something or someone...' I knew intuitively it was the answer."
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Sunrise Quote
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"Happiness is a butterfly, which when pursued is always just beyond your grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly will light upon you." - Nathaniel Hawthorne
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"Will Step Four be painful for me?"
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Hi everyone! I'd like to share with you a question that I've been asked many times by many sponsorees: "Will Step 4 be emotionally painful for me?" The only way I can ever answer that question is out of my own experience with doing a Fourth Step inventory myself. To begin with, we must est...
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Sunrise Quote
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"The first duty of love is to listen." - Paul Tillich
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Today's Gift
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CommunicatingHe said, "Let's go to the movies when we're done with our work." She said, "That's a great idea!" But when the work that she had in mind was finished, he still had several tasks that remained undone. So they got into a dispute. It was not a disagreement, it was a misun...
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Love and Tolerance
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Yeppers...that was the topic at this mornings AA at the bay, Saturday version, home group meeting. Go figure...really?...alcoholics and alcoholic/addicts talking about love and tolerance of others who may be threatening their recovery? Has recovery become soooo valuable that a recoveri...
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Can someone help me, please?
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This is my 3rd time coming back to this board. Somehow, I guess I just keep getting myself stuck in the same messes, over and over. A lot has changed in the last few years. When I first started writing, I was new to Boston, in my early 20s, on my own, meeting new people, dating new people, and JUST starting to...
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Any one live in Georgia??
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I am considering making a move to Monroe, outside of Athens... just curious... no decision made yet, but it is a possibility.John
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Welcome to the MIP Board 'harley kid 67'
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Hi harley kid, ... Glad you found us and we look forward to you sharing your ESH with us ... God Bless, Pappy
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Just when I thought life was getting simple and drama free!!
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Some of you might remember the video i posted about an ex girlfriend drinking for 6 days and going into a alcoholic comatose state after a length of sobriety. Well, anyways that was about a year ago, and she was in the hospital for 11 days, and in coma for 9 of them. Upon her discharge on day 11, she was phy...
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I Finally Got a Sponsor!!!! Happy Happy Joy Joy!!!
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I had been making excuses out of fear for not finding one. Been praying lately to my HP that if He wanted me to have one, please bring one into my life and lo and behold, I was introduced to someone the other night after a meeting. I have enjoyed this person's shares and feel a big sense of relief. Still a litt...
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Today's Gift
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If you want to be found, stand where the seeker seeks. --Sidney Lanier When does a good program turn into a bad program? When it becomes a hiding place. As adult children, we are good no, ingenious at finding hiding places. Sometimes we hide behind our work by staying super busy. We hide in prayer itself...
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Today's Gift
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To the rationally minded, the mental processes of the intuitive appear to work backward. His conclusions are reached before his premises. --Frances Wickes Intuition is a valuable form of wisdom that often seems mystical. We lose our keys and can't find them in any of the usual places and then an idea...
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Sunrise Quote
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"Person to person, moment to moment, as we love, we change the world." - Samahria Kaufman
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Ohhhh I don't know...
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Recovering alcoholic use to work for NASA and use to counsel kids about alcoholism and drug addiction in life and yesterday I watch a news clip that NASA is sending an 11 year old boy into space soon and what will he do?....Brew Beer. Somebody please realign the thought here so I can get it better? Rea...
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Today's Gift - THIS was an Extremely Hard Lesson for me!!! ... A Must Read!!!
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This hit home for me like you wouldn't believe ... I had made it to step 8 a couple of times and just never had that 'change of heart' referred to here ... Once that did occur, I was able to complete the rest of the steps, and the miracle happened, I was 'free at last', I was now capable of 'love' like I'd never k...
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Grapevine
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October 9 "With the clock ticking like it is, I do not have time for anger, resentment, or self-pity. Time is far too precious."
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Sunrise Quote
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"The two most powerful warriors are patience and time."- Leo Tolstoy
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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October 7, 2013 Quote of the Week "You need to spend some time with God this morning and then let your day go." I can start my day two different ways: the way I usually do which means rushing through my morning preparing for work and thinking (or worrying) about how I'm going to control eve...
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Grapevine
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October 9 "The slogans are simple things ... these AA tranquilizers do not solve our problems, but they can calm us down, remind us of a better way to proceed, and perhaps even put us in a mood to make better decisions."
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Today's Gift
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I like not only to be loved, but also to be told that I am loved . . . the realm of silence is large enough beyond the grave. --George Eliot We've all heard many times that we must love ourselves if we're ever to love another. Too often we mistakenly think that means we shouldn't need to hear someone's affirm...
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What alcohol does to us
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Hi All, This morning, I am really internalizing the extent to which alcohol has at times made me an unpleasant person. I have been playing out past behavior in my head and realizing that even being *around* alcohol has made me feel the compulsion to lie, to sneak, and be a really negative person. Being a...
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Sunrise Quote
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"Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate." - Albert Schweitzer
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Grapevine
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October 8 "I know what the temptation of fame and money really is ... I was once a breaker of anonymity myself. I thank God that years ago the voice of experience and the urging of wise friends took me out of that perilous path into which I might have led our entire Society."
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Sunrise Quote
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"No one would have crossed the ocean if he could have gotten off the ship in the storm" - Paul Boese
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Today's Gift
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It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life that no man can sincerely try to help another without also helping himself. --Ralph Waldo Emerson When Albert Schweitzer said, "The only ones of you who will be truly happy are those who have found and learned how to serve," he was st...
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here i go again....
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I didn't want to post on the board because I feel like I am sounding like a broken record and worry about getting criticized for it. I just feel like I have no where else to turn and you have been so nice in giving me advice during my sobriety. I am extremely grateful. A while back when I was at a meeting to get...
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Lucky
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About a year ago I read a book called Undrunk: A Skeptic's Guide to AA by A.J. Adams. At one point in the book the author writes that once you have spent time working the AA program, any remnants of fun you had drinking is pretty much ruined. I was intrigued by that idea at first and now am pretty sure I unders...
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Grapevine
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October 7 "As of this moment I repose serenely on Cloud 9, being thankful in silent meditation. I know the grim realism of this troubled world will bring me sharply back to earth at any moment, but I pray I may make a safe, happy landing."
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Motivational Quote of The Day
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I do not need any alarm clock anymore... for now, it is my PASSION that wakes me up every morning! _________ World's most expensive coffee till date :: Kopi Luwak -- Edited by Finn Felton on Monday 30th of September 2013 10:04:23 PM
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Woot! I got my marbles back (maybe)
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5 years sober today. Couldn't have done it with out my MIPeeps! P.S. - Happy 7th anniversary Danielle - SobrietySpell if you read this!!
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"How can I forgive?"
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Hi to all of you at MIP. I'm Mike and I'm an alcoholic. I'd like to share some things I've learned about myself regarding forgiveness at Step 4, and the things I share with my sponsorees that seems to help them. In the process of dealing with resentments at Step 4, I always point out that keeping a resen...
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Today's Gift
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Self importance is our greatest enemy. Think about it - what weakens us is feeling offended by the deeds and misdeeds of our fellowmen. Our self importance requires that we spend most of our lives offended by someone. --Carlos Castaneda Were we offended by someone yesterday? Do we harbor resentment...
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Sunrise Quote
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"There are some people who live in a dream world, and there are some who face reality; and then there are those who turn one into the other." - Desiderius Erasmus
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i dont know if I should be here
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Im an alcoholic. I havent been able to admit it to anyone but myself yet. But I know that I have a problem. I'm a young girl, married tto a man also a like me... A drunk... I just don't know if I should be posting here because I am no where near recovery. I just feel so alone and have no where to turn. but, i thoug...
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How to deal with dishonest, corrupt and shameless people (BAD People) in real world
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Well I am in program and trying to live a spiritual life but in real life i have to deal with lot of people who are really BAD, dishonest, cruel, shameless, they can do anything for their own benefits , In real world i see that bad people are always more successful, powerful and very influential I feel very...
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The eleventh month
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Hello MIP-ers. My question today is: how did you feel when you were closing in on your first year of sobriety? Were there new challenges that arose? Did you feel great? Not great? I feel kind of... mixed. A big mixed bag. Would love to hear some ESH.
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Mugshots...
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Everyday I check the arrest listings for the county where I live in Florida...Two reasons really...One to see if my nephew made it back in there...The other to see if I recognize any of of my AA brothers and sisters. Do you know on average I see two or three a week. Mostly DUI...Trespassing...Driving...
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Sunrise Quote
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"Giving frees us from the familiar territory of our own needs by opening our mind to the unexplained worlds occupied by the needs of others." - Barbara Bush
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Today's Gift
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Look, the wind vane fluttering in the autumn breezeTakes hold of certain things that cannot be held.--Feng ChihWhen we think we are losing our grip, we have good reason to look up. Consider the moon suspended in the sky, how it continues to come and go, follows its natural law, and never really loses fa...
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WHO TAUGHT ME TO PRAY?
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Hi everyone! I'm Mike D. and I'd like to share a topic that has always been important to me throughout my 25 years of sobriety. It's prayer. I want to talk about prayer because so many old-timers talked about it around the tables when I was new to A.A. While I've never been religious, I knew about pra...
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Starting Fresh
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Hello all. Am new to these forums..... As I am sure is the case with many of us, our stories are very similar. Am recently out of rehab and have been clean and sober for 107 days. But am struggling, REALLY struggling to get back into the swing of things, especially my marriage. The marriage is not on th...
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Living
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I slipped into this comfortable stage of recovery, where things seem too good. I got to discover why I'm waiting for the ball to drop in ACOA meetings. Why comfortable is too boring and scary. There were times I still wanted to fix others so I could stop the pain I would encounter as a human every once a...
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Sunrise Quote
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"There is only one way in the world to be distinguished. Follow your instinct! Be yourself, and you'll be somebody." - Bliss Carman
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wow
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So,This morning I was looking for Young People's Conventions. I was so excited. I really wanted to find where it will be the next conventions.And I find it in Australia. And I told my mom that it will have this month Convention in Australia. And she laugh at me and asked me to see the cost of the tickets. To...
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