I've been physically abused (and of course more importantly, mentally and emotionally abused) by a woman before and that is a very difficult position to be in because you have no idea how anyone is going to react if you speak up for yourself.I'd get out. Don't fool yourself into believing that somehow you can help her, or that you're the only one who can. My ex is still living her life exactly the same as she was before we got divorced, 10 years ago. Thank God I'm no longer a part of it.
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