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Serenity In Me Through AA-2
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Serenity In Me Through AA-2
During the active and practicing alcoholic days, I did not have the feeling of belonging and the feeling of being accepted. Now I have both in AA.I now believe strongly through the steps, that ser...
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Under the influence at the podium
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Hi, i'm new here. I could use a little advice please. One of our members has recently gone out. 2 months ago I was shocked to see him, very much under the influence, chairing a meeting. I called him on it and much drama has happened since then. 2 nights ago I walked into a meeting to see him at the podium and I l...
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Nice Place
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Hi Folks I'm Bry,
A friend told me about this site and I've been poking around and you seem like a great bunch. I'm from upstate New York and have been sober since 10/23/2004. It took 3 years to get this 1 back when I relapsed after being sober for almost 7 years. I hadn't had my last drink and I pray each day...
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Serenity In Me Through AA
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SERENITY IN ME THROUGH AA
I have an elated feeling of belonging to a privileged band of people in AA. This sense of belonging is very much important to me, since I didn’t seem to belong anywhere or to anything during...
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A few Quotes For Today
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Do not wait for ideal circumstances; they will never come.
Janet Erskine Stuart
There is no such thing as a free ticket; every decision has both opportunity and cost.
Priscilla Elfrey
A peacefulness follows any decision, even the wrong one.
Rita Mae Brown
No matter how much informatio...
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hello
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Hi everyone. my nameis Jim and im a alcoholic. i just signed up and would like to say hello to everyone this am. god bless and help someone stay sober today.
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Daily Reflection Jan 5
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TOTAL ACCEPTANCE He cannot picture life without alcohol. Some day he will be unable to imagine life either with alcohol or without it. Then he will know loneliness such as few do. He will be at the jumping-off place. He will wish for the end. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.152 Only an alcoholic can understan...
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WHAT DO YOU THINK?
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A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.
A quote from Hugh Downs.
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Unlocking The Door
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STEP THREE "Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him"
Practicing Step Three is like the opening of a door which to all appearances is still closed and locked. All we need is a key, and the decision to swing the door open. There is only one key, and it is c...
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Resentment
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Resentment is the: harboring of animosity against a person or group of people whom I feel has mistreated me. unresolved anger I have over a negative event which occurred in my past life. seething, aching emotional turmoil I feel whenever a certain person or event is discussed. lack of forgiving, t...
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Daily Reflection Jan 4
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BEGIN WHERE YOU ARE We feel that elimination of our drinking is but a beginning. A much more important demonstration of our principles lies before us in our respective homes, occupations and affairs. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.19 It's usually pretty easy for me to be pleasant to the people in an A.A. se...
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Ottawa program offers drinks to homeless alcoholics
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Hi guys! I came across this and am interested to know your "take" on it?
Doll
Ottawa program offers drinks to homeless alcoholics Last Updated Mon, 02 Jan 2006 21:37:10 EST CBC News
Shelters across the country are taking a closer look at an Ottawa shelter that gives drinks to homeless alc...
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Silent Withdrawal And Anger
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Is silent withdrawal an expression of anger?
By silently withdrawing into myself, isolating myself from others, I show anger in a passive way. I am: angry over some real or perceived offense. incapable of venting my anger openly and prefer to remain silent. afraid of an outburst of anger, afrai...
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How I made it to AA(continued)
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I'm Chris, alcoholic.
My Mother and Father met in a bar in Biloxi, Ms. He was 26 and she was 14. My Mother looked and dressed much older. She wasn't drinking. She was looking for someone to rescue her.
My Father was a sort of celebrity. Aside from being a cler...
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Daily Reflection Jan 3
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POWERLESS We admitted we were powerless over alcohol-that our lives had become unmanageable. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 21 It is no coincidence that the very first Step mentions powerlessness: An admission of personal powerlessness over alcohol is a cornerstone of the founda...
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Teenagers affecting my sobriety
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I thank God for this program. This weekend I had to work and ex stayed with the kids this weekend. I come home and my teens have snuck beer into the house and where drinking. I did't yell,but I was baffled. My 18 year old had just come home for just a couple of days and I did not want...
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binge drinker or alcoholic?? or same
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a quick simple question.............
as i described in an earlier post, my wife is what i call a 'binge drinker' in that she does not drink on a regular basis, but when she does [approx 3-4 times a year] , she drinks until she pukes and drops. does that make her an alcoholic by definition?? ...
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Support not understood
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As I have said before the A that is in my life is my mom. She was ok with the idea of me being on the MIP Alateen, Alanon, and ACoA message boards when she found out. She is would be ok if I started going to Alanon. This makes no sense to me....can any of you explain this to me?
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Today's Gift 01/02
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Today's Thought MONDAY , JANUARY 02, 2006
You are reading from the book Today's Gift.
Happiness is like manna; it is to be gathered and enjoyed every day. --Tryon Edwards
Life is like a winding path surrounded by flowers, butterflies, and delicious fruit, but many of us spend much of life loo...
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Being Vulnerable
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Vulnerability is:Feeling of being exposed to emotional hurt, being taken advantage of, or abused.Feeling of being fragile, weak, or susceptible to emotional pain and suffering. Feeling of being trapped or imprisoned in a situation where your feelings and rights are ignored. Opening o...
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Opinions wanted...
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OK, most of you know me pretty good I guess I try to always work this program and I KNOW it's recommended NOT to START a relationship in the first year. and I understand why. Here's my question: should I? shouldn't I? I haven't talked to my sponsor about this..He's&nbs...
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Daily Reflections Jan 2
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FIRST, THE FOUNDATION Is sobriety all that we can expect of a spiritual awakening? No, sobriety is only a bare beginning. As Bill Sees It, p. 8 Practicing the A.A. program is like building a house. First I had to pour a big, thick concrete slab on which to erect the house; that, to me, was the...
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Hazelden
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Healthy Limits
Boundaries are vital to recovery. Having and setting healthy limits' is connected to all phases of recovery: growing in self esteem, dealing with feelings, and learning to really love and value ourselves.
Boundaries emerge from deep within. They are connected to letting go...
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Great meeting tonight
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Well I think I found my answer re: emotional overload. The first speaker tonight was telling his story and a lot of it sounded like mine. Then when got to the part about finding AA, he said how at his first meeting he stood up, admitted he was an alcoholic and cried.
Bam! That...
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Wishing everyone a wondrous 2006
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Thank You for your support and fellowship this past 2 months- I was able to ring in the New Year sober, as I hope you were too!
Take Care,
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A link to find meetings in ur area
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www.anonymousone.com
Go to the bottom of the home page and select "meetings." Enter your preferred group and geographical location for local meeting places and times.
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New Here
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Hello everyone. My name is Denise and I'm new to this group and I'm an alcoholic. As of yesterday I was on day 12 of sobriety. Today I'm starting over. I feel horrible that I slipped up, but I know I can do this. I hope to meet some new friends in here.
Happy New Yea...
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a New Year, A new Beginning
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Hi to all, just want to wish everyone a wonderful and Sober year.
There are so many goods Posts this morning, my computer is acting like a two year old, I have been spending hours on the Board with Replies, when i go to Send, the message is deleted.
Congratulations Doll!!...
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Gotta, gotta, gotta share it !
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WOO HOO! Damn it! I feel GRRREEAAT! My very first New Year's day without a hangover, still drinking, still drunk or hugging the porcelain god!!
I spent last night at my home groups Alco-thon. We had a BLASSST! I laughed so hard thought I was gonna wet my pants a couple times. We cooked the trad...
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AA Thought for today
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Daily Reflection Jan 1
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drink til you puke??
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Happy and merry to you all!!
I'm new to this and don't even know if i am on the appropriate forum for my problem, so please hear me out and/or refer me to another forum that can help.
about me.....i'm an amercan ex-pat [50's]retired and living in Thailand. married for 5 yrs to a Thai woman [35]&...
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1/1/06 - 12:26AM EST
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Happy New Year!
To my wonderful MIP family!
My grandma used to say whatever you do on New Year's Day, you'll continue to do throughout the year - so I hope ya'll are doing something that means a great deal, but no matter what it is do it sober!
Love you all.
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Another day...a different date...
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Just taking a few minutes to wish everyone here, another day of sobriety. For most of us..thats a miracle in itself.
In sobriety? God (as we understand Him)..works through people...
And He does it through everyone on this board..as we share our experience strength and hope..with ea...
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Lost and Found
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Thought I'd share some lines from one of my favorite songs, with all of you on this New Year's Eve.
"Amazing grace, how sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me......
I once was lost, but now, I'm found....
I was blind, but now, I see."
I used to lose all kinds of things dur...
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30 years in the belly of the beast...
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Hi all,
Just wanted to let you all know how much this forum is helping me. Yup, thirty years of being controled, dominated and bitch slapped by a meer liquid. Spent most of the last 30 years planning my entire life around my addiction to alcohol. I am probably one of the most functional dr...
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$250.00 a month
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Thats what I spend on beer and smokes. Sheese what a waste!!! Add it up over the years and my worst hangover doesnt compare to the wasted feeling I get thinking about all that squandered money. This time next year Im going to have $ 3000.00 I didnt spend!!!! Thinking I want to go to a AA...
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Dec 31 Meditation
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I found a good group
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I'm scrambled, dizzy and over emotional today. About 25 people. Nice folks, down to earth. Two speakers. I made it through the meeting fine, I shook hands an exchanged names with nearly all of them. At the end of the meeting, the moderator said if anyone wanted to joi...
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Welcome to the Guests! come on it
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I can see I am the only member online and there 4 guests, is there anyone that needs to talk?
Someone is usually on line and available if you need any help. Just make a Post, and someone will respond.
So to all the guests! Welcome
Toni -- Edited by Toni Baloney at 19:55, 2005-12-...
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How I made it into the arms of AA
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I'm Chris, alcoholic.
My Mother and Father met in a bar in Biloxi, Ms. He was 26 and she was 14. My Mother looked and dressed much older. She wasn't drinking. She was looking for someone to rescue her.
My Father was a sort of celebrity. Aside from being a cler...
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Some Days I still kick my own ass..all over the place..
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No Regrets Please!
Guest editorial by Dr. Laura B. Lyons
Since life does not have a rewind button, one of the most significant challenges that we face in the process of living is putting regrets behind us. Life does not provide a dress rehearsal for the real thing. The life we are now living is the...
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Daily reflection Dec 31
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First AA meeting
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Well that didn't work. Online and over the phone I was told the meeting started at 7pm. I got there at 7:01pm. I expected about 10 or 15 people, but found the parking lot jammed. Had to park across the street. Right next to the hall was a firehouse and across the street wa...
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hey
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Your presence is a present to the world. You are unique and one of a kind. Your life can be what you want it to be. Take the days just one at a time.
Count your blessings, not your troubles. You will make it through whatever comes along. Within you are so many answers. Understand, have courage, be strong....
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Touchstones - I love this!
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Our greatest glory consists not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
After we get a new understanding about ourselves we think, "Now I will never have to make the same mistake again!" But our lessons are usually not that easily learned. We have to get the...
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Gratitude
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I am greatful for/to;
That power greater than myself who, gave me a life.
All of my past experiances.
My Father who, abandoned me for alcohol.
My Stepfather who, physically and emtionally tormented me.
My Mother who, allowed it to happen.
My Grandfather who, introduced me to alcohol at...
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Daily Reflection Dec 30
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THE JOY OF LIVING  
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Yesterday..Today...And Tomorrow
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There are two days in every week about which we should not worry, two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension. One of these days is YESTERDAY with its mistakes and cares, its faults and blunders, its aches and pains. YESTERDAY has passed forever beyond our control. All the money in t...
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Hi all
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Hi all. Hope you all had a great Christmas. Looks like I've missed a lot on the message board in the last two weeks, I'll have to catch up when I get back home to England.
At the Moment at I'm in Wellington, New Zealand having got married 2 days ago!
Another 2 weeks to go and I'll be home.
Best wishes to y...
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